thanks David Bowie

Finding a new voice when our world changes; and it does change even when we don’t expect it to.  The children that grow up, the Uni results that point one way or another, the job, the health the insert name here choices that come our way and those we didn’t expect.

So how do you find a new voice when the world changes and the existing armour no longer fits?

What do we try on and where do we go to find a new attitude, new look or even a new way of being?  For some, by way of example Diane Keaton*, finding a look early in the piece that works and remains is very fortunate, however what happens when that look (internal or external) no longer works, where do we go to find the new look, new attitude or even a new way to be when the old look (read here, relationship, job, partner, study, divorce, car) is no longer who we are?

Does our new voice find us, or do we go seeking it?

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” ― Anaïs Nin